Lol I am soo bored. Anyways, I came this time to write about my fucktard sister. I swear I can't wait til I bring her ass down here.
Anyways, she was 15 when she got pregnant. A VERY immature 15 at that. Anyways, partway through her pregnancy, she started dating this horrible drug addicted, deadbead dad.. lets call him... John. Well, John already had two kids himself, a two year old and a one year old, and he had done NOTHING for his kids, I don't even think he was their for their births.. he was probably out fucking someone else or getting stoned. Anyways, everytime he was around and my dad was getting ready to take him home, my sister would start faking being in labor so they would have to go to the hospital and take him with them.
Well the time finally came for her to actually go into labor, or so everyone thought. Dad called me at work and told me if I wanted, to just wait til the next morning to come out (it was like a two hour drive) because they weren't sure if they were keeping her or sending her home. Well, my grandma called me the next morning at around 8am and told me they were inducing her at 9.30 am and I needed to get out there. I got there, and yep, there sat John right beside of her. I was pissed, of corse. It wasn't his baby he had no rights to be there. Anyways.. I was the one to be in the delivery room, my mom and I. So I signed the papers and everything, and John kept asking "Do I need to sign anything?" "What do I need to sign?" And mom and dad both were like "Nothing!" They hated him too.
When my niece was born, John stayed at the nursery window, watching her. Once again, he had no place, he wasn't her father. If he wanted to be a good boyfriend like he was portraying, he would have stayed in the room with my sister, and saw the baby when she could see her. Anyways, a few weeks after the baby was born, they started having sex, and she thought she was pregnant again. Luckily, she wasn't. In December, my sister decided to file for sole custody incase the baby's real father found out she existed and tried to get her (Which would be impossible, you would have to know the whole story, and I don't have time for that right now). They went to court, and the courts ordered him to buy her anything and everything she needed as a form of child support, and my sister and he would have to work out visitation and such, and my sister could choose for it to be stopped at any time.
Meanwhile, at some point, John was planning on going to the army, and he asked my mom if she would sign for him so my sister and the baby would get money should he get killed. After some pondering and disagreeing, mom agreed (the money should go to his own kids, not someone elses), and she told me if something should happen to him, then she would find his kids and make sure they did get most of the money, since it belonged to them to begin with.
Well, things went well for a while. John went back to the town where his baby momma lives, and I guess they started fucking again, and he and my sister broke up, and she started trying to get back with the baby's father. And of course, that didn't go over so well. Well, back in June, after having been away for nearly 4 months, I went back for a visit, Mya and I did, as she was due to go to her grandparents on July 1, and I was coming home on July 2. But when my hubby came up to get me, he brought his friend, and he ended up sleeping with my sister!!!!! Now, I have heard that my sister is trying to find another black guy to sleep with incase she IS pregnant, which she claims she might be.
I am sorry, I love my sister and all, but she is a whore. Anyways, back to the story. A few days after coming back, she told me that she almost asked us if her and the baby could come back with us, and I told her that as soon as we got a place, she could come stay for a while. Well last night, I find out she is BACK with John, so hubby and I talked about it, and I told her as long as they are together, she is NOT coming down here. Mainly because I know he will want to come with her, and that shit isn't happening. Conveniently, they broke up last night, and now she isn't letting the baby's father or his family see her, but guess where she was this morning, yeah at THEIR house..
Ugh I really can't wait to bring her down here and get her away from that bullshit. But in the meantime, what should I do about her? I have tried talking to her, hubby has tried talking to her, nothing works. She is suicidal and she can't see that her daughter needs her. How can I help her to open her eyes to see that?
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